ramblings

time heals all wounds it's true, but what the sages failed to mention is that in the healing changes are wrought. when people step through the black hole of tragedy they are not the same when they arrive on the other side. perceptions of the world filtered through new vision. priorities re-arranged ,what once was deemed important now relegated to the dusty shelves of memory. relationships changed some made better /stronger ..some lost along the way. it's like each person involved is reborn through their pain and new pathways to their future are laid before them. and things once cherished fall away as their focus changes by necessity to adjust to the new way of life. Tragedies leave scars both seen and unseen. I think it's the unseen ones that are the hardest to learn to live with.....